“Grief is better than laughter, for when a face face is sad, a heart may be glad.” - Ecclesiastes 7:3

“If we are not willing to feel negative emotions, then we shall not experience the richness of our positive emotions.” - C. S. Lewis

I once worked with a pastor who only wanted upbeat songs during musical worship. He was OK with preaching about sorrowful biblical events such as the crucifixion. He didn’t want us to sing what he called “downer songs”. he was concerned that if the congregation was allowed too much reflection during the musical portion of the service he would have to re-energize them before they could fully appreciate his sermon.

Another minister I worked with wanted to include at least one reflective song, which would be followed by a joyful song so that people would understand and feel the transition from sorry to joy.

Music is a powerful tool. A melody can uplift us or send us plunging into darkness. Because music is such a powerful took, it should be used wisely and to its fullest and proper extent.

Lord, help us to plan musical worship that allows us to understand You and all Your depth.